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| | Ok, so my boyfriend of 2 months has already asked me about having sex with him... But, we're only 15 and both still very new to the relationship thing. I'm scared, and I don't like admitting it.. I don't know what to do.. I mean, I've told him that I want to wait until we're atleast a year into the relationship, and he's fine with it.. But he's a very persistant person.. And sometimes that scares me about him...... What do I do? I plan on holding my ground about the sex thing, but does he seem like an ok person to be dating? |
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| | I know that if my boyfriend didn't respect my not being ready to have sex yet, and if he kept trying to pressure me into it, I would think he didn't love me enough to respect me and my choices, and i'd tell him this, and if he kept pressuring me i think i'd call it off.. |
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| | I know some one and my-self in the same case from a guys point of view. if you say your not ready for it and he leaves you then he obviously he's not a good guy to be with! |
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| | you have to stay firm to your decision, if he doesn't respect that then he doesn't love you. My partner is ok with the way i feel and supports me and never makes it seem like a disadvantage. There is more to life than just sex. |
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| | I would tell you that it is worth waiting until you're in a serious, long-term relationship. I don't want to sound like I'm talking down to you - but please believe me when I tell you that 15 is way too young. You will not enjoy it like you will when you're fully developed (which won't happen for at least another 4 or so years - most likely even longer). If you have to sneak around and hide the fact that you're having sex, that's an indicator that you're not ready. You're only a virgin once - and it's not about "giving" it to someone. It's about respecting yourself enough to keep it. Love will come to you - quit trying to find it in anything that's male. I know you want to be loved, we all do. But, you'll just regret it. |
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| | if your in a siguation like that i would ask him,"do you think im worth losing over sex? do you care about me more than that" for me it would be a take it or leave it siguation. |
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| | You asking the question is he okay to be dating is the answer. We usually don't ask those kinds of questions if everything is going good. It is one of the hardest things to stay true to your self isn't it? I would tell an adult you trust so they know what is going on but if that's not possible, you stand your ground becasue you are making an excellent decision to wait. It is so smart of you to want to wait and keep reminding yourself of that when he get's all persistent. I boyfriend lost but self respect gained and that is a powerful thing. |
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| | dump his *cough*. he sounds like bad news. you should never do aything before your ready to. |
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| | if he keeps pursuing and you Do Not Want. You should break up. he may be a violent guy. not good relationship |
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| | My parents always told me that if that person really cared about you, he would respect your decision. If you don't want to have sex, and he keeps bugging you about it then (possibly) all he wants in a relationship is sex. (And if so, you might want to consider calling the relationship off) Besides, there's way too many risks (teen pregnancy, STD's, STI's, etc.) |
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| | 15 is way to young to have sex! even 16 is! think about what would happen if you got pregnant. my own opinion is that if this guy wants you to have sex with him so young he is definetly not the right person to be dating. sex is only somthing to get involved with if you love the other person. |
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| | I will tell you one thing...wait. My first sexual experience ended up being a one night stand and scarred me for a long time. I had many unmeaningful sexual experiences after that and it's easy to say it didn't bother me, but it always did (deep down) because I too, was like you and orginally wanted to wait. I am engaged to be married and my fiance knew that I didn't want to have sex with him until we were married. And you know what?? He loves me enough to wait until that day. I won't lie and say it's easy. Of course you are curious and want to know, but the potentially bad things that come with that physical relationship don't make up for that 10 seconds of gratification. Relationships are hard enough, being a teenager is hard enough, adding sex into that whole realm of things just complicates it even more. If I could take back one thing in my life, it would be my viriginity. Be strong and if he respects you and loves you, he will wait. |
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| | I would tell him I want to wait if he keeps forcing I know i wouldnt want to but i would break up with him |
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| | If he is pressuring you to have sex, then he might just be using you!! Your only a teenager once. Enjoy being one! 15 is wayyyyyyy too young! Dont even think about it! For all you know, you could become pregnant and get diseases! Its not worth it! Even condoms and other things may not work! Wait till your older. Think about it!! |
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| | you really need to know this, now listen closely: YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you're only 15 years old for god's sake!!!!!!! there is a lot more to life than having sex. you shouldn't even be having sex for another 3 or 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell him that if he really loves and cares about you, he'll wait till you guys are older. there are many complications with sex. you could get herpes or HIV, AIDS, or get pregnant. these things can really complicate your life!!!!!!! if you get a sexually transmitted disease, your parents will have to pay that money and use money on you that they could be using to get other things you actually need. if you get pregnant, you might have to drop out of school so you can take care of your baby. education is really important. without education, you can't go far in this world. if you get pregnant, your bf might leave you too. he might just desert you and leave you to take care of the baby all by yourself..... he might not even help pay for the baby's needs, and life will not end up good for you. you need to think of all the problems ascociated with having sex. Sex only lasts a moment, but taking care of a baby or fighting a disease will last many years. please listen to what i've said. Good luck on making the right decision. ~SHATIK |
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| | Why are most of these posts about age? Age has nothing to do with it. A 35-year-old that isn't married shouldn't even consider sex! This is pretty basic stuff, people. |
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| | im only 12. soon to be 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex. but im not even allowed to HAVE A BF so it wouldnt work out anyways |
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