i dont know if im in "love"

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Anonymous
Posted 6/13/2007 10:30:07 PM




i just met this guy in late January and he helped me forget about a bad break up i just resently had (then, that is) ever sence then we have been hanging out and getting closer. i feel something with him that i have never felt. i really dont know the difference between infatuation or love. so i need some advice asap, before something gets badly broken.
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Anonymous
Posted 6/14/2007 6:36:25 PM




I'm sorry, i don't know how to post. plz do it..

Here’s the thing, I have a boyfriend who lives on the other side of the continent that my parents don’t know about. I met him online and we’ve been together for a year and a half, and we’re so in love, that we’d do anything for each other. My parents don’t even let me date though, and I’m afraid that if I tell them about my boyfriend (who, by the way is a little over 4 years older than me) because they probably won't let me be with him. How and when can I tell them without risking losing him. Do I just stay quiet about our relationship?? Help!

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Anonymous
Posted 10/20/2007 12:02:05 PM




Infactuation is like that butterfly in your tummy all the time when you see him, it's like that time when you realize you like someone soooo much.  But the honeymoon ends eventually and it's just like any other love in your life.  Hopefully it will be like a partnership where yes you love eachother but your also growing together to better yourselves and each other. If you can feel like your self in front of him, that's a good sign.
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Anonymous
Posted 10/24/2007 11:05:11 AM




Listen, your not in love, just lustful. What you think is love is just a type of puppy love. For one if you don't know if your in love then your obviously not. Love is not something you understand right away, it takes awhile. It can feel good, but in the end that is not love. I can understand that you feel like your heart is being torn apart, or fluttering with the butterfly's in your stomach, and these feelings are good, they are on the path to finding true love, eventually. But you have been tricked by this man and your heart. He may say he loves you, but he doesn't, he really just loves your body. You have to dump him, because if not he will just leach off your emotions and manipulate your heart. This can't end well, either way you have to dump him, or when he finds you unattractive in the future he will dump you and it will hurt so much more then, than if you let him go now. I truly hope that one day you do find true love and it grows into an unbreakable bond, but for now, this is the wrong time in your life, he is the wrong guy, and you need to teach your heart what true love is.

-hvf
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Anonymous
Posted 11/5/2007 4:41:12 AM




give it time! he might actually be THE ONE!
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Anonymous
Posted 1/4/2008 12:26:35 AM




You should get to know him more, not through lust for eachother. Dont look at his faults. Look at the qualities that brought you and him together. Let the realationship bloom. Dont fight over stupid things.

Good luck on the realationship!!!!!!!

LJH " Blos"

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Anonymous
Posted 2/13/2008 9:04:52 PM




hells yah man! it is love
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