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| | | | my friend always borrows my stuff but she doesn't give it back!! Its not like its expensive stuff or anything but I still want it back. Like the other day she asked if she could borrow my pen but she never returned it. I feel stupid asking for it back because its just a pen but I'm just sick of it.  |
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| | | | | Maybe you should talk to her about it. just tell her it's not the little things like a pen, but it's the point of it and all of the times she doesn't return stuff. it builds up and it is starting to bother you. Well its tough but I had this friend and she always borrowed my clothes and when she did finally give them back a lot of times she'd give them back and they'd be ruinned! and she'd never take responsibilty for it! She'd say it was like that when I lent it. I knew it wasn't! So one day I told her I didn't want to lend my clothes out, that they were getting worn out and I wasn't even wearing them very often (she was!). She didn't talk to me for a few weeks then when we talked again she asked if she could wear my clothes again! I think if she was a better friend she would've been more considerate or at least said sorry for messing up my clothes. She ended up being a selfish *cough*! maybe that's not much help for you...sorry! I did feel better about talking to her about it though and now I don't lend my stuff, if it's something like a pen than I make sure to say someting like "I'll need that back when your done". |
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| | | | | you really need to tell this friend of yours that you are really, really upset that they are takin your things without returning them!!!!!! if they are a good friend, they'll listen, hopefully appolagize, and they'll give you your stuff back. maybe they don't really relize that they are taking your stuff without returning it. or maybe they are just using you for your stuff. if so, you need to be more assertive and STOP BEING THEIR FRIEND!!!!!! you shouldn't be friends with someone who uses you... you should just talk to them first, and then see what happens. trust me, you don't want to be making friends with people who use you. but you also don't want to stop being friends with a great friend if you don't talk to them about it first. Good Luck!!! - ~shatik~ |
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| | | | | Explain that when she doesnt return your things it is really effecting the friendship between you two. Tell her you want to trust her but when she doesnt return things, your not sure if you can trust her with anything else. Say, " how would YOU feel if i borrowed your things and I never returned them! You would not trust me that much! Thats how I feel!! Trust is very important in a friendship. Make sure she knows this. LJH " Blos" |
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| | | | | your friends a moocher! i bet you see something of yours disappear every day and end up hers. you got to stand up for yourself. fight the power |
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| | | | man i'd be walkin up and down her _ _ _ if she was my friend. friends don't steal things that have little or no value. i mean like its weird like pens are hard to come by when your at school but not when you go to like office depot or wal mart or something but i would be mad if she stole my pen |
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