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| | | | i have to make a choice soon about where im going to live the next 3 years of my life...
first i can live with my aunt and go to the private school i want to go to but i hate my aunt (curent situation).
next i can live with my mom who is living with my step dad who raised me most my life and my little brother and sister and i love them all but i would have to go to a public high school and lower my chances of geting into a good collage.
fianly i could live with my reall dad and his new girl friend and her two daughters who are all very nice and my dad spoils my roton and i love town he lives at and i would have more privacy and a bigger room to my self.
but it is almost imposible for my to hurt anyones feelings and i know my family is starting to get angry at each other and they are starting to put my in the middle of their fights and i have to make a desicion soo... i just dont know what to do... |
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| | | | Wow. That's a tough one. I'm no expert on this sort of thing, but my family is shattered as well and I do have a bit of advice. First I would say it's really important to be thinking about your future but, I would not suggest living with someone you hate when so many people who love you would be glad to have you living with them. Of the second two choices I would choose whichever home in which you would have access to the best education. That's all the help I can give, but I'll be praying for you and I know if you pick where you will be happiest while keeping your future in mind as well, you will make the right descision. Besides, you can always visit the rest  of your family even if you're not living with them. |
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| | | | | it's like brekaing up there is no good way to do it and either way they are going to be hurt. but u need to do what is best for you, and ur family needs to realize that! this is u and your life, and what you will need to do to help you later in life. hope i could help a little :/ ttyl Stef |
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| | | | | i think you must choose the thing its the best for you, maybe if you live with your aunt you can meet her and love her, its for something she is bringing her house, now its your future not the future of your family |
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| | | | Hmm... well
I dont think you should live with your aunt because you say you dont like her.... and I think that you really sound like you want to live with your mom and your younger siblings but it is really up to you i hope i was able to help |
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| | | | Hey! If you want a good education you should live with your aunt. But if you prefer living with your mom or dad, do so. But if you live with your aunt your other family memebers can see that you are elooking up to your future. If they don't see that with out you telling them tell them! It's what ever makes you happy. Remember it's your choice. But you will be surpized how undersatnding parents are and if they are not it's there problem that they don't understand you. not yours. |
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| | | | | live where you want, but know that just because you go to private school doesnt mean you are any smarter then if you went to public school. i went to both private and public school and i got a much better education in public school because i was able to choose what level i wanted to take(such as AP IB and honors) and colleges dont care about what school you did, mainly your test scores and essays and GPA. but the most important thing is to live where you will be the happiest, because when it comes to school it will always work out. |
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| | | | It's ok to go to a public school, and you can still go to a good college. You just need good grades. |
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| | | | | If i were u, i would get all my family together and have a deep, meaningful converence. Then the others know u want to go to a good college and u dont want to hurt their feelings by choosing one over the others
LJH " Blos" =)
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| | | | | If its not to late you should live with your mom because its beeter to go to a public school because you meet more diverse and creative people and it evens your chances of going to a good college. I go to a public school where everyone thinks its ghetto and gang related, but alot of kids there have gone to harvard. But you can live with your siblings and your mom and the people you feel more comftorble and confident around |
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